Transformation Empowers Divorced Women – 3 Tips on How to Create a New Persona Post Divorce

Do you need a makeover now that your marriage is over? After a devastating end to my 13-year relationship I realized I had lost touch with my feminine side. I needed a total transformation, so the first thing I did was step out of my husband’s boots and back into my red high heels. If you can relate, read on for some transformational tips.

3 Actions to Take for Re-invention:

1) Ask a Friend to Give it to You Straight
I was lucky enough to have a lifelong friend sugar coat nothing for me. After he addressed my less than feminine attire and independent persona I was left with a WOW – I need to fem-up fast. Enlist a friend to help you discover what positive changes you can make.

2) Assess your Assets…and Make the Most of Them – take an objective look at yourself – if you find this hard to do, call in your girlfriends. Everyone has at least one fabulous attribute they can emphasize.

Do you have shapely legs? Slip into a skirt with a slit and show them off!

Sexy cleavage? Try a V or scoop neck sweater.

Cute ears? Wear a beautiful bauble.

Pretty feet? Step into an open toe sandal – but don’t forget the pedicure…nothing worse than unkempt feet!

Great eyes? Make them smolder. You get the point.

Now go shopping and have some fun buying items that will showcase your newfound assets and make you feel gorgeous.

3) Treat Your Tresses, Make a New Face- I don’t know about you but whenever I’m healing from a break-up I head straight for the best hair salon in town. An au courant do and color make me feel like a new woman with a fresh start. Next head over to the nearest make-up counter and ask for a whole new look. Changing hair and make-up is a way of letting go of the past and helps you feel uplifted. It’s also something you can control when you may be feeling like your life is spinning out of control.

These suggestions may seem a little uncomfortable for you at first, like anything you’re unaccustomed to, but change is just what you need. Transformation means a death and rebirth…the easiest place to start is your outer visual persona.

I wanted change pronto so I went at full throttle but you may find baby steps more your speed. Whatever your approach, know there is an exciting new you waiting to be unleashed.

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